The InstaFliXXX Mansion VIP Lounge is a private members only group (and the guests that accompany them). We offer a discrete and premiere venue for men of color [Black, Latino, Arabic, etc. & the men who love them] who enjoy the company of other discrete men in a safe secure environment. We celebrate those who share the ideals of the swinger lifestyle & the right of private assembly. This is not only a place for sexual adventure but for overall networking and relationship building.
How does it work? / What is this about?
The InstaFliXXX Mansion VIP Lounge is a private, fraternal, member’s only group. We offer a discrete and premiere venue for men of color [Black, Latino, Arabic, etc. & the men who love them] who enjoy the company of other discrete men in a safe secure environment. We celebrate those who share the ideals of the swinger lifestyle & the right of private assembly. This is not only a place for sexual adventure but for overall networking and relationship building.
We’re an all-volunteer group & exist solely to serve as a common meeting ground for like-minded people.
Where is the Lounge?
located near N 24th st & Allegheny Ave, 19132
When is the Lounge open?
Events will be announced on this site, date and times may vary.
What should I expect?
Events are held in clean, spacious, row home in north philly just 5 Minutes from Roosevelt Blvd & Fox St exit. Our private events are for consenting adults. Our events are for men ages 18 & over. By signing up as a VIP Member you agree that you are of age understand the event may involve nudity and/or sexual content, also that you understand and are not offended by the nature of the event. Nudity is NOT REQUIRED!
How can I be a member/attend event?
Simple. Just register to be approved and come to a party.
How much does it cost?
The InstaFliXXX Mansion VIP Lounge is a all-volunteer group and we’ve got expenses to organize and host events so we ask for a fifteen-dollar donation/ $10 donation before 3AM
*FOR A LIMITED TIME ONLY $10 DONATION (ALL NIGHT)*
VIP Members are discounted.
We encourage men to come who can afford to pay the full $10-$15. Your donations allow us to host weekly events and provide refreshments, snacks, & coffee at events including;
- Ice-cold spring water/refreshments (Cranberry, Pineapple, & Orange Juice, Pepsi, Coca-Cola, & Mountain Dew)
- Snacks (Doritos, Lay’s Classic, Pretzels, Oreos, & Chips Ahoy)
- Plenty of condoms and water-based lube (You can also bring your own lube if you have a favorite kind.)
- Resource materials on std testing, healthcare, & legal services (See our front table)
What should I wear/bring?
Wear whatever you want and bring whatever you feel you need. Nothing specific is required.
We have lots of men and a playroom with adult videos, couches, chairs, and areas with more and less light.
There are no 100% dark areas, no booths, and no 100% private spaces.
What kind of guys come to the parties?
Men ages 18 & over are welcome at events and every party is different, but at most events the majority of guys are 20-30 (with some younger and some older guys). The InstaFliXXX Mansion VIP Lounge offers a relaxed, judgment-free zone that allows you to be you.
Most guys who attend events are HOT men of color (Black, Latino, Arabic, etc), but not all. We get a mix of races/ethnicities & physical types. And most importantly the men are friendly & relaxed!
What am I expected to do at events?
What if I’m not interested in someone at events?
- There’s no expectation at events, If you want to lounge or just watch at first (or always) just say, “Thanks, but I’m just watching”. You can also enjoy the snack & refreshment tables.
- Events are really relaxed and friendly with little attitude. If someone approaches you and you’re not interested we ask that you be polite (that’s part of the no-attitude atmosphere) and politely say “No Thanks”.
- If you’re already busy with a guy (or guys) and someone else wants to join in but you’re not interested just say “No Thanks”. Also, there are several rooms so there’s plenty of space.
- If you encounter someone who’s really persistent (and you’ve said “No Thanks” multiple times) please speak to event attendant. However, “No Thanks” usually works just fine.
Is it OK to bring liquid incense a.k.a “poppers”?
It’s OK to bring, however we ask that you be considerate of others who may be sensitive to your “liquid incense” and we ask that you PUT THE LID BACK ON WHEN YOU’RE NOT USING THEM. If a spill occurs there are paper towels located in hallways and we ask that you wipe it up or inform attendant.
I am a woman (or I know a woman) who would love to join your events- is that OK?
Sorry, wish we could accommodate you, but The InstaFliXXX VIP Lounge is a private, fraternal, member’s only group. We offer a discrete and premiere venue for men of color [Black, Latino, Arabic, etc.] & men who love them.